This is the practice that helped me when my mother passed away, quickly. I'm not ready to write about it in detail, but it was certainly a helpful practice which took from from contraction to well....a bit more spaciousness in my belly and my breath.
This is the practice that I carry with me, when "stuff" is happening in my world, which is your world.
This is the very simple practice that creates space. When we have a sense of spaciousness in our breath, we can have space in our responses to the world. Stephen Covey, who wrote the gem of a book The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, talked about this space in between stimulus and response. I've kind of been a bit fascinated with this every since, yes, there is space.
Desikachar also wrote about there usually being enough space between what is happening and our response to it to take at least one full breath. I think he's spot on!
Anyway, a few years ago, I wrote this out on a little card and handed it to the students in my Yoga class. The little piece of card read "Just one breath". What surprises me and makes me so glad, is that many of my students still have that card. One carries it in her wallet and one has it on her fridge.
Its a really simple practice and it can change your response, your interactions with others and gives you time, just enough time to drop in to your centre, to soften, to really get into a space of E A S E.
And from that place, well, good things can happen.